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All Praise is due to Allah & may his choicest blessings be reserved exclusively for our Master Muhammed..
Okay, where do I start? After all my desperate attempts to try and find a spouse and exhausting all my options I've ended up on a Matrimonial website..lol..times are hard..haha (joke). on a serious note, Like many people I never thought I would be on a Matrimonal website. InshaAllah, with the permission of Allah I hope to find myself a suitable Partner for Marriage.
As The Deen plays an important part in my Life, I would initially like to talk about Religion. Alhamdulillah I have been trying my best to Practise on Deen since my mid Teens. I try my utmost to keep Deen at the forefront in all situations and try to be the best Muslim that I can be.
In regards to my Religious ideology and methodology I regard myself as a muslim, who is accepting of all other sunni muslims. I have an inclination to the Deobandi school of thought, Tabligh Jamat, Sufism and I Love the Ulama. I love and respect all other schools of thought like the Habaaib, Salafis and Barelwis. I believe that muslims need to be accepting of one another. I try and take the Good from all schools, if I can use the term, as there is only a few differences.
I don't feel uncomfortable describing myself as I'm not one who likes boast, brag or blow my own trumpet. Humility is an important quality but as I have to describe myself; here goes. I believe myself to be an Honest, Trustworty, Kind, Compassionate, Empathetic, Loyal. Person Alhamdulillah. I have been told by others that I am Intelligent, Wise and very understanding Alhamdulillah. I regard myself as a simple muslim and a simple person, but have been told otherwise. Ive also been told that I'm spontaniously and naturally a funny guy, without being offensive and putting someone else down
Alhamdulillah I have a wonderful, loving, close, respectable family; full of 'chatacters' lol.
I am a memon by caste. My father is from Malawi Africa, whose Parents are originally from India. My mother is from Parkistan. Making me mixed raced or confused lol.
I enjoy socialising with my extended circles' of friends. However I do like and have moments where I prefer being introverted for reflection, as I am a deep thinker.
I enjoy travelling, holidays, banter, spending time with family and friends.
I don't go to the Cinema and try and avoid watching movies and listening to music, but do have my moments of weakness, mainly due to boredom at times. One of my pastimes, at a point in my life, was I used to write hip hop bars to pass time. So occassionaly you may see me rapping lol.
I do take pleasure in eating, my mother is an amzing cook, and I do get spoiled by the choice of food outlets in the city. They say 'never tell a woman you can cook.' So, Im not saying anything lol.
I am also trying to stay fit and healthy and have a slacked a bit recently, but until a couple of months ago I was training minimum 4 days a week. I lost two stones.
Now for the part of my life to which there is a stigma attached; my health. A few years ago I was diagnosed Bipolar (Manic Depression). For those of you who don't know about the condition; I have highs and lows. I'm not violent or anything like that. A lot people had/have this Condition; Winston Churchill, Vincent Van Gough, Charles Dickens, dmx, Mike Tyson, Britney Spears, Demi Lovati, Catherine Zeta Jones, Marylin Munroe, Van damme and others. Interesting if you take out time to read about the condition. I do believe, honesty is the best policy and am therefore mentioning my illness. Alhamdulillah everything is from Allah. I am happy with whatever condition Allah puts me in. If anybody would like to know more about how my illness affects me don't hesitate to ask.
I have recently started working due to improvement in my health. I have started a cosmetic business. I had been our of work for a while due too ill health & my treatment taking some time. Which is also the reason that I am now actively searching for a Wife.
To me essentially a Successful Marriage is about two individuals who are compatible. Ideally I would like a partner who has the same zeal for Practising on Deen as I do, as I feel that this would be one of the foundations of our marriage. A woman who wants to please Allah and a woman who gives importance to the afterlife aswell as this life. A woman who is or wants to be a good muslim is important to me. If you have knowledge of the Deen and you're from a religous family that would be a bonus.
I also believe that Marriage brings about stability in a person's life due to a number of factors. Some being; the company, friendship, someone to share your joys and sadness with. So I would like someone who knows how have a laugh and be serious when required.
I have a diverse group of family and friends and therefore would like someone who is a people person and enjoys the company of others without being Judgemental but maintaining their Identity.
The mother's lap is the first school - so a woman who would do tarbiyyah and educate our children to be religous, have good character, morals and ethics.
I find it hard being around arrogant and stuck up people, humility is a beautiful quality.
Mutual attraction is also important to me. So if you could kindly have a picture up it would be appreciated, I don't like to lead people on or be lead on.
If I don't reply to your messages it's probably because Ifeel that we are not compatible. I don't like to upset people so I wouldn't want to tell you directly, that's awkward. So I apologise in advance if I don't reply to your messages.
I wish you all the best in your search. May Allah bless us all with a suitable spouse. Ameen
I'm registering to find myself a partner