A Little Bit About Me
Please note any inappropriate, indecent messages or addressing me with names like babe, honey, sexy, love etc you will be blocked. We are Muslims and you should remember to stay within the boundaries of Islam. It doesnt suit men (with beards and/or elderly men) communicating in this manner. Just shows the level of your decency. 😠
I am a hardworking and dedicated single parent to two beautiful children who are my world! Unfortunately I had *TWO* previous failed marriages, out of which Allah SWT blessed me with my daughter 16 and son 6 (both have separate fathers whom they have no contact with). I have been divorced now for just under 7 yrs. (I was pregnant with my son when my marriage ended for those who are a little confused).
I currently work at my local primary school as a special educational needs support worker. I work with children who have physical and mental disabilities. Alhamdulillah it's Avery rewarding career; yet quite challenging.
My school of thought is Sunnat wal Jamat and I follow the Sufi Naqshbandi Order. I DO celebrate Milad e Mustafa SAAW, so for me it is highly important that my future husband has the same Aqeedah as myself. I have performed 5 weeks Umrah during Ramadan Kareem and now InshaAllah hoping to complete my Hajj with my future husband, InshaAllah.
For those who are interested in the caste system; I am a Bhutt Kashmiri from Gujarat City in Punjab and I speak Punjabi.
Personality wise, I am quite reserved up until I get to know you. I am a bubbly, genuine, honest person; just like an open book. I am a hopeless romantic, I have a lot of love to give to my husband.
Everyone will try and impress and "sell" themselves. But as my father says, it's easy pretending to be someone who you are not. You could carry it out for a couple of weeks, months maybe a year or two; eventually the "real" you will come out. So it is best to be honest from the very get go and lay your cards out on the table. If after seeing you in your open honest form STILL wants to be with you, they will make every effort to be with you and will respect you for being "YOU".
What I Am Looking For
I want someone who is loyal, honest, truthful and most of all, God fearing. Someone who is mature and understands that life is not always a bed of roses; it has its ups and downs, and both parties have to make sacrifices and compromises- not just the wife. I’m looking for someone who is romantic and caring; has to have a lot of love to give and will be my best friend.
Last and most importantly; love and treat my children as his own. Even if we end up starting our family, he has to make sure that my children are always made felt like they are his too. You MUST understand that my children DIDN’T chose to be in the situation that they are in and crave for a father figure. Someone who they can call “DAD” with pride. If you can’t accept my children as your own and treat them fairly with love, then please DONT CONTACT ME.
REMEMBER that you are committing to me as a FAMILY and not just as an individual.